The politeness into marriage
When love each other, polite , so they are always happy when dating . Married later , many people will think : are the "insiders" , and also need what kind ? Even feel polite but let the two estranged . In fact , on the contrary , just as the " hedgehog " effect as rudeness will ruin the marriage OK , too close to the only stab each other . The politeness into marriage, not only does not alienate each other's feelings , but help love fresh.
Sister one of our office to answer the phone , that is a " hello ." Listen to the conversation back , I realized that was a call from her lover . We jokingly said: " Sister, so much older , but also, and her husband so polite ah ? " Sister laughed: "It's not polite, it is polite ."
Xiaoqian some disagree : "Oh, really annoying ! Can there be so many things , my husband and not an outsider , afraid of what ah ? I told our family who is to go straight , and not so much courtesy ." Echoed in my side and said: "Yes ah , a long time , also pay attention to the feeling because it is a man , nothing can be polite . "
Sister shook his head and said seriously : "No matter to whom , to be polite you can do for others , the closest person to own more should be done ! Actually, the marriage with politeness , and will have a harmonious . " listen to her so that we do not speech , and lost in thought.
I have a friend , and her husband separated the two soldiers . Every time her husband to call, she is also a first-come a " hello " and, finally, to say "goodbye ." I do not understand and asked her: " how and her husband also so polite ah ? " She calmly replied: " used to it, this should be the most basic courtesy to answer the phone when it ." I am even more puzzled: " the key is you are giving her husband call ah ! "she said with a smile :" Yes ah, you think, ah, no matter who is calling you , hear a greeting , then your heart upset you ? others I also regards it, it is her husband, I should greet him ah ! "
In fact , polite and grateful to know , are the most basic quality life . We often think that one of us bother to pay attention to those too ? In actual fact, no matter to whom , should be polite. Especially for his closest people , even more so . Civility is not an outsider , but a respect and gratitude.
Marriage also requires politeness, so let 's feel more comfortable , even if reluctantly do not mind , it does not ignore each other's requests. Let each other what to do , when you add a word , please , the other will feel very comfortable ; each other to help you do something , you say a thank you, you'll make them feel that you recognize his work . Marriage parties are independent of each other , are not attached to each other, for each other no matter what , is not as it should be , but the exchange of emotion and love , with such exchanges will have a wonderful marriage.
Marriage a little more polite , it will be less embarrassing ; courtesy point, it a little more respect ; courtesy point, it a little more harmonious ; courtesy point, it a little more understandable . Polite marriage, vitality will be more permanent . Message déposé le 08.10.2013 à 04:51 - Commentaires (0)
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