World everything is dialectical unity , conservation of matter just transformed it, so anything is gains will lose , that will pay pie heaven head smashed package price. In short, there is no gain at the same time have something to lose .

Workers get paid , we should lose mental or physical ;
Singers get to the palm , it is necessary to lose strength or energy ;
Athletes won medals , we must lose rest or leisure ;
Winter swimming people having fun , we should lose time or socialize ;
Bribe officials to get money, and would have lost the moral or conscience ;

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A man get Xiaomi ; about to lose his wife's trust ;
UN Secretary-General received the highest positions ; would have lost many hours of entertainment .

Is finding money , no return money , citizens will lose morality . I still do not know what to get and not only lose . So , I do not want to have to get much more care about what they have lost , because of the loss itself also means that some get .

I lost my senior , won the leisure comfortable ;
I lost generous , get to sleep from anxiety ;
I lost the banquet , get their health ;
I lost cheer ; won mood ;

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I just lost his life ; also received eternal life "peace ."

Therefore, I do not expect to get something more ; more afraid of losing something more, because the road of life , has always been such a rough ride . " Blessing in disguise , a blessing in disguise ." Anything between gains and losses , which is a good thing can turn bad , bad things can be turned into a good reason.

Premier Zhou lives without private savings , no self- biological children , seemingly lost a lot , but he won the admiration of the world's people ; those guilty of corruption have received a lot of possessions, but lost their freedom , and even lost their lives.

There are many pros and cons are not proportional to the time , or even inversely proportional to how to deal with such problems , depending on their mentality. If I lost the joy of life , the more trouble then I will get more , which is proportional ; But if I get 120 -year-old life , I will lose a minimum of sorrow, which is inversely proportional . Because sorrow less body more healthy , more long life , it is unquestionable truth.

I do not personal gains , but I know on balance, should not lose do not lose , such as: conscience , sincerity, kindness, justice , and of course there is no need to pursue should not be obtained , such as: money, fame, office, beauty , etc., because they are between gains and losses , when to get something when there will be the appropriate thing to lose , too, when discarded something society must also be a corresponding gain , which lies in their ability to make the right choice .